Wednesday, September 30, 2015

The last days of kindergarten








Near the end of the year the Kindergarten put on a concert. It was adorable to see how much all of the kids grew over the course of the year. I loved listening to their heartfelt melody as they  sang to all the parents.

Kindergarten has been quite the year. We watched Collin grow from a timid first timer, to an expert school-attender.  It was wonderful to get to volunteer in class and get some first hand glimpses of how Kindergarteners think and behave. The budding independence and confidence is precious. An example of what Kindergarten thinking is like:

Mrs. Fields sent this via email:
Mrs. Fields: we're going to talk about how chickens develop!
Collin: I know. The hen lays an egg, the rooster poops on it and rubs it around with its feet, and thats how a chick is made (said mater of factly to the whole class).
Mrs. Fields: Really Collin, I had no idea!

Ha. Oh the ridiculous logic they dream up.

He's ready for first grade, but desperately wishes he could still have Mrs. Fields for 1st grade because she is such a great teacher. Its very true. She is an amazing teacher. This is the letter I wrote to the principal this week to remind them of what a gem they have in her:

Mr. Koland,

As the year comes to an end I wanted to take the time to write you to tell you about Mrs. Fields. As an educator, I realize that our teachers spend far too many days in the trenches with 26(!) kindergartners, and not nearly enough time surrounded by the praise they deserve.

First, I want to set a little context. I'm an educational psychologist by training and, admittedly, a pretty critical analyst of teachers. I've been trained to be data-driven in my work, and my research focuses on the early years (K-7 years old) and parenting. I work at the U of M as a researcher. As a result I'm a very strong advocate for under-served, low income and minority parents and their families, and I know well the literature and best practices within early childhood and kindergarten literacy and numeracy standards. I've seen you at generation NEXT meetings, in cradle to K cabinet briefings and among other educator crowds.  I say all this to let you know that I don't give out praise of this variety often because the lenses I use to examine context and content have breadth and depth that make it easy for me to find more flaws than strengths. 

Yet, even with the grueling layers of my critical eye, I have been exceptionally impressed by Mrs. Fields. My son, Collin, is wonderfully compassionate and excels in reading and academic generally. But he also has challenges with focus and attention. Mrs. Fields was careful to support him in ways that were constructive and helpful throughout the year. I never once received an email from her that talked about challenges as being part of Collin's traits or character, she always carefully crafted notes to reflect behaviors or contexts. That is such and important and admirable skill in teachers and Mrs. Fields has it down. She knows to recognize the strengths in the students first, which offers so many opportunities to build a collaborative home-school partnership, the type that is sorely needed in many other kindergarten classrooms across the state. Consider yourself lucky to have such a skilled teacher interacting with these kindergartners. I contribute much of Collin's success in the end of the year to her careful attention to his needs and her problem solving solutions that help him focus. The ball-chair has made a big difference as has some of the other check ins we do to keep him aligned with expectations for work. I'm confident he'll do well in 1st grade, and a big portion of that confidence came from skills directly attributed to Mrs. Fields working with Collin.

Of course, that's not her only strength. Her commitment to routine and her kind and compassionate way with the class is steadfast and wonderful. I can barely believe the amazing success she's had with 26 students. 26 is huge for K. I just observed in a K at Sheridan in Minneapolis and they were capped at 18 with a para and a lead teacher. At Hall Elementary, a north Minneapolis school (MPS) again, they capped at 23, next year it will be 20. I offer these figures to note that I'd challenge any one of them to compare their students outcomes to her student's outcomes- she managed the class exceptionally well and made strides with the students. (With that said, please though, don't give her 26 next year! It really is too many!)

Because I do drop offs everyday (we open enrolled to EDW), I get to see her days start quite often. There was only 1 day this entire years that I entered the room and didn't think she was glowing with ambition and excitement to contribute the Kindergartners learning environment. She was totally sick that day. I felt awful for her; even with a miserable cold, she was still there. Lately there has been a new student in class who I can see is struggling to assimilate to the routines and practices, and Mrs. Fields is so warm and caring, almost parental to this student. Its heart-warming to know that no matter the student, she operates in a way that shows compassion and care to build relationships first. This student has only been in class a few days, but already she immediately connects with Mrs. Fields when she comes in, so its evident that those warm caring relationship skills are really doing their job quite well.

Mrs. Fields is also masterful in differentiating instruction. I volunteered once a month, so I got to see little glimpses of this, but she knows all 26 students abilities, strengths and challenges. That's no small feat! I often ran small group interventions/centers for her and her post it notes were specific and tailored to each student. I appreciated very much her attention to detail regarding where each student is and how to push them into their zone of proximal development. She's also done an excellent job of fostering non-fiction interests in the Kindergartners. Collin's interest in all things living has grown tremendously and its great to see his enthusiasm to explore the other side of the library.

Because I got to volunteer I also got to see, on occasions, students who were probably candidates for Tier 3 interventions or a referral. I really believe its these students who showcase a teacher's true skill. Its one thing to teach to students who can gather the information easily, process it and move through a lesson. Its quite another to scaffold every part of the lesson with multiple opportunities to respond in ways that are at or just above the student's current level. I think sometimes you can see the success or failure of such approaches on the kids faces. Five or more rounds of interventions that are just too hard make failure a pattern and sink a child's motivation and confidence. I worried about this with some of the kids who were Tier 3 intervention or referral candidates early in the year (just based on my observation). But as we reach the end of the year, I found my worries were unnecessary as these same students still have an enthusiasm for class, still are smiling and excited to learn.They might have had a referral or qualified for special ed, but its not noticeable. There was no sinking of confidence, no lack of enthusiasm on the student's part. This speaks volumes about Mrs. Fields skills. She is able to preserve that confidence and motivation by carefully offering interventions that support success, and I hope if I ever have a child in the same position, they come out feeling confident, as those in her classes appear to have, rather than defeated (which is all too often the case when we move to special ed referrals).

As the year comes to an end I've talked to Collin about 1st grade. He's anxious about it because he doesn't want to leave Mrs. Fields. I worry that the bar has been set very very high. I want a Mrs. Field replica for 1st grade. Collin needs the structure she has, complemented by the warm caring relationship aspect. I need the strong partnership that I've been able to have with her over the year, so I hope your 1st grade teachers are up to the task!

In sum, I'm sending this note to let you know that she really is a gem. If you get a moment to thank her for all she does, I encourage you to do so. She's made a difference this year in 26 young lives that really has sparked a love of learning for the rest of their lives. They'll never forget her, and we're so grateful she contributed to Collin's success.

Thanks for listening.
Best,
Alisha






Saturday, September 12, 2015

The first Hollman Lakehouse trip 2015

This year we took our first annual Hollman-Taylor family lakehouse trip. Since this side of the family lives all over- Las Vegas, Dallas, Minnesota and Wisconsin we lobbied for a lakehouse trip like we take with my side of the family and this was our first go! 

The first year we booked fairly late, so we ended up only being able to find a place in northern Minnesota, but it was a fantastic house in Aiken, MN. The house belongs to one of the Piano Brothers (yes, those Piano Brothers), and has a beautiful baby grand sitting in the living room. It had plenty of room for all of us, five or six bedrooms and a sandy lake that made for a fun week. The house was also right off a nice bike path and most days the boys took long bike rides into town to get ice cream. I think in total they put on over 20 miles and Owen made his first go at some pretty significant hills on his two wheels.







I love these trips because it gives the boys a chance to really get to know their cousin(s). Aiden was a ham and we had tons of fun chasing him around and playing in the sand. Next year their will be a new addition, and it won't be long before a few more grandchildren join the mix.









The house came with loads of kid-friendly things- toys, books, crib, you name it they had it. They also had a floating island which made for a nice mobile office since I had to do some work while I was there. Immediately after this trip we were on top of finding a place for 2016 that is more centrally located and offers more space for walking and exploring. This coming year our second annual will be at Lake Pentenwell in Wisconsin near the dells, and the year after that we'll head to the place next door with an indoor pool. We're already excited about it!














I'm so glad the boys will have the same kind of memories of fun lakeside adventures on both sides of the family and look forward to many many more lakehouse trips.
But that wasn't all! That weekend happened to also fall on Drew's parents anniversary! When we were back in town we got a sitter and took them out to dinner to celebrate!

Here we all are, all cleaned up for family photos!






Cheers to many many more lakehouse trips in our futures, and many many more anniversaries!
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